(yeah, they fight...almost daily. but they love each other too!)
But it's been a few.
Enough that it's become tradition, something eagerly anticipated from year to year.
Even if there's one that doesn't actually like crab.
Grab your crab cracker,
lick your lips,
grab a leg,
and dig in!
Table of crab legs for 13? Yeah, that's what we're all talkin' about!
See ya next August Joe's!
|my sister and her crew|
if we're the M7, they are the C4
Posted by Kristi at 11:02 PM
With just 364 days from Ky to DQ with Caleb sandwiched almost in the middle, we have one magical day a year they are triplets.
Posted by Kristi at 10:01 PM
There was a day that she didn't like being the center of attention. She'd find somewhere to get lost on the sidelines, desperate to avoid being the center of attention. Performances at school or church terrified her and left her in tears.
|"who me? really?"|
My once shy, reserved, uber quiet little girl has become an outgoing, confident, assertive nine year old.
Nine. There, I said it. NINE. As in halfway to eighteen. As in we'll stop that train of thought right now...
I'm not sure exactly when she got so tall. But these days she is all legs.
It seems crazy that you are halfway to the point that you could be leaving the nest. I say could be because your plan right now is to live with Daddy and I for the rest of your life...and I'm okay with that. But I suspect that as your confidence continues to grow, you'll figure out that the world isn't quite such a scary place and you'll change your mind. It wouldn't surprise me if you ended up spending extended time in the land of your birth and while I'd miss you, I know you'd be back to visit.
Over the past year you've declared yourself a "swimnast" and lobbied Daddy and I to be able to join a local year round swim team. You also have truly become a voracious reader and it isn't uncommon for you to read four, five and even six novels a week. Right now historical fiction attracts your attention, especially when set in the homesteading period or based around the civil rights movement.
As the oldest, you expertly fill the role of "leader of the pack" in our house and most days do a great job of encouraging your younger siblings. You are willing to spend time with any of them though if you had your way, you and DQ would spend days on end playing with your lego friends or including Natalie when you three play with your Journey Girl dolls.
You occasionally drive me crazy with cries of "that's not fair" when one sibling gets something that you want (like a play date on a day you have swim practice or time on the computer that you didn't get) but that same sense of fairness that nearly makes me lose my mind also shows me that you have a heart for others when I hear you comment on how unfair it is that children around the globe don't have families to take care of them. I truly believe that you have potential to be a world changer.
You and I butt heads from time to time. You're just as strong willed as me. I mess up in this role of parenting, but you are gracious and don't hold my inexperience against me.
I am grateful that I can call you my daughter.
My love always,
Posted by Kristi at 10:17 PM
In the blink of an eye (okay, okay, it was actually five years, but it feels like a blink) our beautiful birthday girl went from a "me focused" toddler with chubby little hands,
|the eyes haven't changed a bit though...|
I sometimes catch my breath when I think about how we nearly missed the blessing of having Darcy Q in our lives. We weren't planning on three kids, we weren't planning on three kids within a year of age, and we certainly weren't planning on a crash course in pediatric glaucoma, port wine stains, craniofacial orthodontia, and Sturge Weber Syndrome.
As I watched her open her birthday present (a travel set for her Journey Girl doll, Kelsey) I reflected on how she is an amazing gift to our family...and how the layers continue to delight and surprise us with each passing stage.
Darcy hasn't found "her thing" just yet. Not that she hasn't experimented. She's taken ballet, tap, and guitar. She's a solid swimmer, a fast biker/scooter rider and can hold her own on a mile run. She enjoys art and has a pure singing voice. But nothing has made her tick just yet.
|well, nothing beyond putting together lego friends sets|
(she and ky got a large set as a shared birthday gift)
You are one in a million. When you get frustrated or irritated, you just don't have enough mean bones in your body to stay upset long. Even your most grumpy face is replaced by a smile and forgiveness quickly. And that smile? Well it is pure sunshine.
At eight you have pretty much read all of the Rainbow Fairy Books (time for a new series), you are a prolific writer, and you excel in drawing pictures/coloring/writing poems and notes for those you love. You enjoy building with Legos, walking Amber, and playing dolls with your sisters. You are proud of your Chinese heritage, love to sing praise songs, and live out the commandment to love one another better than most other people I know. While you do still often add an extra syllable to your older brother's name (Ca-lub-uh) you and your "twin" are as close as ever.
Thank you for loving me despite my imperfections.
You make me a better person and I love you with all my heart!
Forever and always,
Posted by Kristi at 9:17 PM
Few and far between are the days that I don't hear a "Here Mommy, I made this for you," come from her. She is my creative little soul and her love language is coloring pictures, writing poems, or free-handing sketches as gifts. Our refrigerator, windows in the breakfast nook, my dresser and nightstand, and even my wallet overflow with little expressions of her love.
Even, and maybe even more so, on the days that I'm off my A-game as a mommy, she presents me with little scraps of her soul. May we all be as forgiving and loving as my sweet DQ.
Posted by Kristi at 9:47 PM